I Would Like To Discuss What Makes Sex Amazing

I Would Like To Discuss What Makes Sex Amazing

Wow, I feel like this is the trillion dollar question, what we all are searching for, what we feel we get “close” to, but maybe there is still a part that feels missing …

Myself personally having had ALOT of sex, I feel like I can speak on this topic quite fluidly and honestly. After all it is my work, but it is also my passion in life. One quest my soul has felt to study, navigate, explore and question for many years. 
And still each day I am learning…. 
And here I will share my views, and findings –
Mind blowing, toe curling, multi orgasmic heart opening sex is authentic. It isn’t something that can be acted, played out, is gender specific, can be planned or “made to happen” it certainly doesn’t look like the porn movies, and it can’t be ticked off a sex service list, infact when we do this we remove presence from connection, and go into our heads, which is basically death to connecting intimately. We have lost that moment of passion with our lover. We are no longer present. 
To confirm here – I am not speaking about boundaries – boundaries between two consenting adults is vital For us to feel safe, relaxed and lubricated to open to one another (a key point to incredible sex)!
I always like to discuss this with my lovers prior to being intimate – so we BOTH feel safe. What I am talking about refers to placing expectation on another and ticking off boxes. Getting into our heads and away from presence, away from being in the moment with your lover and truly feeling all the pleasure that is available to you in that moment. 
For me, amazing sex is when we can allow our bodies to really melt into one another, to not force orgasm and to relax into pleasure without chasing peaks, but more so finding deep pleasure in the slower moments. The intensity that pulses through my body and into my pussy when looking into each other’s eyes, the juiciness of having my ass caressed, the scent of my lovers skin as I kiss and lick them all over, the gentle whispers into my ear that send shivers of pleasure through my whole body, my pussy wet, pulsing and ready to be penetrated and licked just by erotic connection of breath and desire! 
And of course orgasms are SO welcome, and multiple to be had. It’s just not THE single most important thing. 
If we allow – Time starts to blur into one delicious melting pot of connection and pleasure (This is where ancient sexual practices speak of spiritual growth and reaching higher realms) it’s truly magic. 
But to allow this type of connection, it takes time, trust, and actually taking things SLOWLY (An art long lost in modern times- and also a reason why I truly value long bookings) .
Now also a side note here, as human beings we also have an inner animal, a primal instinct of basically just wanting to fuck, tear each other’s clothes off and go straight for the big O, we feel sometimes it can’t be contained and sex can be pretty wild, basic, primal. AND there is also NOTHING wrong with this.
My point is just to state that this is not the only way to have sex, as this type of love making is really rooted in our base chakra, and doesn’t allow sexual energy to circulate through our bodies as slower more present sex does which can bring a whole heap more of pleasure and heart opening and healing energy to our lives.
I think it’s really important to not say one way isn’t better than the other, but from personal experience I’ve found that I’ve had much more profound experiences of heart opening and pleasure when I’ve come into full presence. 
Also- I can speak for myself over the years that I was the complete opposite of my writing above for majority of my early 20s (I’m 28 now).
I chased orgasm, thought great sex was all about projecting my energy outwards, being an athlete in the bedroom and ticking every sex position you could imagine, not cultivating my own bliss, acting out being a porn star, and allowing my boundaries to be crossed- countless times- thinking this was what men and women wanted. But in truth, all I did was limit connection and pleasure for myself and my lovers. 
When I got real and became authentic to my own needs and desires, I also allowed my lovers to be the same way. Vulnerability and surrender is a beautiful thing (And something I am still working on too 😉 
So there you have it my lovers, real, honest truths…. 
And again, I will tell you… 
“Loving connection is the only cure” 
So much love, 
Honey xoxox 


Human Connection, Love And Intimacy

Human Connection, Love And Intimacy

It’s Interesting how wonderfully different us human beings are, but no matter what, we all have an end goal. TO FEEL GOOD. TO FEEL CONNECTED, LOVED AND APPRECIATED is the most important need we have.

When people are lying on their death beds, seldom would you ever hear one say “dayum I’m upset i never got that dream luxury car” but, you will hear many say they have regrets about not being able to spend more time with the special people in their lives, making memorable connections with other humans, and bonding, because, learning to connect on a high vibrational level with others truly helps ones soul to grow and evolve.

What I’m trying to say, is life is for LIVING, enjoying as many incredible experiences as we possibly can! Travel, human bonding, uplifting and deeply satisfying sexual experiences being a few of the most important! This is one of the reasons why I LOVE what i do so much.

sexual connections and intimacyI feel my role as a social companion, friend, lover and courtesan is to truly enjoy my clients and bring out the best qualities in them possible, sometimes, i feel I am discovering s box of hidden treasures! As my clients and I are so intimately involved, I feel I see a side of them that many people in their day to day living may not see, bring out, or even appreciate.

Because we are in a “secret world of Honey” when we are together, my clients, I assume at times are quite vulnerable (in a great way) and share many thoughts, ideas and talents with me that possibly they may not share in their day to day living, and I too share many of my insights of life, love and personal experience. This to me is really special as I feel this helps to build a really strong bond and really just improves our relationship in general. Each visit learning more and more about one another.

I have a very dear client of mine, that tells me frequently that ever since he met me, he feels he has become a better person. (Not just in the bedroom ;))))) but in LIFE! This truly warms my heart, and the cool thing is, I can see it! each time we catch up I see more of a spark in his eyes, he is healthier, fitter and just more “sparkly” than ever, and I don’t think its just the great sex. It’s more than that. Its allowing a person to truly be their selves and accepting them for who they truly are. Seeing their awesome qualities, that maybe over time, they may not recognise anymore.

I’m not saying this so everyone can go out and book an escort, But just a beautiful reminder how important it is to spend time with those that help to remind us how beautiful life can be!

And maybe if we feel as the people around us aren’t so positive, take a step back and spend some time SOLO! One of the ways I like to recoup my energy is to spend time alone, to reflect, cleanse myself and bring myself back into a lovely balance, and I then find, naturally I attract awesome human beings!

Thanks for reading my thoughts from the heart.

I hope my words can touch someone.
Love Honey xoxox

I Love Lesbian Bisexual & Bi-Curious Women

I Love Lesbian Bisexual & Bi-Curious Women

Escort For Women Melbourne And Interstate

I absolutely adore spending time with women, and am proud to say that I am “truly” bisexual. Whether you are lesbian, bisexual or a bi-curious lady who is seeking her first experience with another woman, I would love to spend some time getting to know you, in and out of the bedroom.

I have been described on many occasions from my beloved female clientele as the “ultimate” girlfriend. My warm nature and true genuine care reflects in my “GFE experience for women”.

I truly believe what the world is lacking is love. There is so much separation in day to day life. Even though many ladies are living lives filled with “stuff” (fancy houses, jewellery, expensive cars and money) the one crucial component that is missing is human empathy and kindness. 

It makes my heart cry at times seeing how much love and true human affection is missing in this world. This is one of the reasons why I LOVE MY JOB SO MUCH! I find great delight in helping women explore their sexuality and guiding them to new and amazing sexual heights. I also love accompanying bi curious ladies on exciting journeys to awakening their sensual selves! So, if you are a lady who has been on the fence for a while now, contemplating her sexuality and wondering what it would be like to experience the tender touch of another women, I am the lady who will help you discover these beautiful things.

Being affectionate comes so naturally to me. I would love to escape the real world with you into our own “ladies only” fantasy land where all is sexy, calm and perfect. My favourite types of dates with women are relaxed, extended dates, as I get to be your “girlfriend/lover/friend” for this special time. I feel that when I get to know fellow ladies on a deeper, emotional level, we form a bond that is more than just “sexual”!  The “sex” then becomes truly amazing as we get to know each others minds, as well as each others bodies.

As I have mentioned in other blogs – “we learn about ourselves through others” so this type of connection, I feel, is great personal development for ladies of all ages and sexual preferences.

I have met female clients from ALL walks of life. I never judge others and accept everybody, as long as you are respectful and kind that’s all that truly matters to me. You will find my girlfriend experience is super passionate, seductive and very sensual.

I LOVE TO KISS. I have big, soft, juicy lips and adore slowly and passionately devouring a delicious female body, just as much as a sexy male. I think you can tell a lot about a person by the way they kiss 😉 Sex is amazing, it bonds us and brings about an amazing chemical reaction within our bodies. Exploring one an other and mutually satisfying each other is one of the greatest joys of life! Lets explore together? I can’t wait!!


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